It is unusual that a group chose a name that so clearly reflects who they are. If they called themselves Proud Men they would have missed the mark. Their behavior and style is definitively that of boys not men. Dressing up with body armor emblazoned with stickers is something that you would expect pre-adolescent boys to wear when going out to trick or treat. Boys who want the world to think they are tough guys dress up and adopt aggressive postures to bully and intimidate. Most boys grow up and abandon external symbols, and power posturing and seek recognition through accomplishment and embracing the best of masculinity – thoughtfulness, compassion and a purposeful life.