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Gender In Politics – II
The discussion about the gender gap has intensified. Yesterday’s Wall Street Journal had the following headline “Gender Gap Is Defining Feature of Deadlocked Trump-Harris Race Split between male and female voters cuts across racial and economic lines.” The good news is that defining masculinity has become a talking point for both liberal and conservative pundits…
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Gender In Politics
I try to be non-political in this blog but gender is everywhere in the current presidential election. “Masculinity is front and center in a way that’s perhaps unprecedented,” said Jackson Katz, a scholar on gender and masculinity who this month released a new film, “The Man Card: 50 Years of Gender, Power and the American Presidency.” According…
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Laundry Men
I accept the fact that many men either single or part of a family do laundry. However, what I find rather ridiculous are the numerous TV commercials showing ecstatic men smelling and rubbing their newly washed clothes. I appreciate the fact that there is an attempt by advertisers to show men participating in chores that…
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Emotional Restraint
An issue that often comes up about men is how do they handle their emotions. A recent story on MSN about the characteristics of manliness mentions emotional restraint as an example. However, in their explanation they equate restraint with stuffing or t denial of an emotional life. This is an outdated stereotype about men in…
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Aspirational Masculinity
A new way of talking to boys about being boys is being promoted as aspirational masculinity. The idea is that we need to talk to boys about their gender without focusing on the negative qualities that men have been associated with – toxic masculinity and the rigid man code. According to former professional football player Don…
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Fantasy Sports
The author of the article on the attraction of a fantasy sports league answered his own question, “Why was I there? The straightforward answer is because my friends were, and I wanted to be with them. The actual draft was secondary to the event’s social function — an excuse to stay in touch, which has…
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Incidental Masculinity
I came across the phrase “incidental masculinity” in a true story about the attraction to a man from a gay women. She was breaking up with a girlfriend and simultaneously developing a platonic love for a man she met while performing in a college play. What intrigued me was that despite her sexual attraction to…
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Gender Neutrality Run Amok
Featured on Sunday’s front page of the New York Times is an article describing the gender neutral policies being followed by pre-schools in Sweden. Even though we don’t live in Sweden the extreme practices mandated reflect the growing ideology that equates gender equality with gender neutrality. The logic seems to be that the only…
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Disconnect
The news cycle is dominated by stories of bad behavior by men. The “Me -Too” movement has exposed countless examples of sexual abuse and harassment by men especially by men in powerful positions. It has galvanized women to become more involved in politics and to add new energy to gender equality issues – equal pay,…
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Me Too Backlash?
Recently a Meet Up invitation arrived in my mailbox with just one word as a descriptor – Fight Club. Intrigued, I wondered if this was just a direct reference to the 1999 movie Fight Club or was this a symbolic invitation to join the hyper masculine “manosphere.” After further research I came across…